“If you’re going to be sick out of hours, be a cow!” and “Verbal abuse of staff will not be tolerated”. These two statements sum up the experience of researching this topic over the past few weeks. The first is a comment from a farmer caring for a mother with dementia. The second is from a recorded message on a southwest general practitioner’s (GP’s) switchboard system. One sums up the frustration of patients struggling to get timely appointments and the other relates to getting satisfactory out-of-hours care.