Last week, a friend of mine got snowed in. She could barely get beyond the farm gate, and as a teacher, she and the kids got a few snow days. “Was it lovely?” I asked. “At first,” she replied. Then after a pause, “You know the way you think you’d love to be a stay-at-home mom, but then you remember, just how much cooking, cleaning and refereeing is involved.”“Yes,” I replied immediately, remembering my maternity leave. While I loved being at home with the kids, it was very busy — much busier than I anticipated. No sooner had I made one meal and cleaned up, I was being asked what we were eating next. The washing seemed endless, the dishwasher was on a constant whirr and often I didn’t unplug the hoover, in anticipation of the next spillage.